Anyone who has experienced BDSM or tantric massage will know the amount of pleasure it brings. I first dabbled with erotica in my teens and since then, my sexual journey has led me down the path of extreme bliss. The fusing of BDSM and tantric massage has taken sexual energy to greater heights, and for many, it’s an experience that’s more satisfying than anything encountered before. Dark tantra will always be one of my favourite sexual experiences and here’s why the combination of BDSM and tantric massage is a match made in erotic heaven.
My beginnings with sexual exploration
At 19, I had my first liaison with tantric massage. The mind blowing orgasm and intense stimulation I felt during that experience in India had me addicted from the very first tingle. As I travelled throughout the region, I explored the sensational feelings of climax, aroused by the sensation of these new methods of pleasuring as well as feeling ultimate contentment.
Tantric massage has given me some of the most incredible orgasms of my life and led me to discover one of the most heavenly sexual experiences – the combination of tantric massage and BDSM or dark tantra.
The power of dark tantra
‘My captor’s finger caressed my clit and the ropes frayed around my wrists. The clamps tightened on my nipples as I came to climax, the tiny beads of sweat on my breasts slowly dripping down my body. A breathless scream emerged and I trembled in ecstasy as I reached orgasm.’
My first dark tantra experience elevated my senses to new extremes and since then, my mind has been opened to sensational sexual adventures. For me, the connection I have with others on a sexual level has been boosted. But, more so, it’s the practice of BDSM that has awakened my inner desires.
Why BDSM and tantric massage has fulfilled my sexual desires
Learning a new pleasurable skill or engaging in a stimulating activity is extremely exciting. I adore the fusion of BDSM and tantric massage encompassing varying acts, designed to indulge the fantasies of both dom and sub.
I’m incredibly enthralled by the acts involved in dark tantra and how these satisfy the needs of the parties involved. The dom having control and my position as a sub deeply treats both my body and mind. The powerless position is one I find extremely satisfying; having someone in control of when I reach orgasm is unbelievably astounding. Sometimes, all I need to unwind is to be tied to my bed while being spanked hard as I reach climax.
Why BDSM is great for those who enjoy tantric massage
Anyone who’s tried tantric massage will enjoy the adventurous nature of BDSM. Both activities share common traits;
- Both offer a sense of control in prolonging orgasm.
- Tantric massage allows both parties to create a raw erotic connection, providing orgasm to be reached after the most intense pleasurable body to body contact.
- In BDSM, the roles of dominant and submissive provide a power struggle that creates sexual energy, leading to a climax.
The fusing of BDSM and tantric massage or dark tantra combines sexual acts, including some of my favourites;
- Voyeurism
- Whipping
- Watersports
- Leather and latex
- Bondage
Dark tantra allows you to break your own boundaries, giving sexual freedom and enlightenment. Being completely open to trying new things is what makes dark tantra so enjoyable. Being able to experience my fetishes is another advantage of this practice and is what keeps me coming back for more. Being able to relish sexual fantasies with a partner ultimately creates a deeper connection and helps to keep both parties relaxed.
Being open to sexual exploration
Imagine being completely naked, except for a rope that binds your hands together above your head and a dark mask covering your eyes. You only see black. You hear the slight movement of the whip, the sharp pain as it slams into your body is followed by an instant release of gratification. The movements of the vibrator on your clit almost brings you to climax. The vibrator is removed, gradually teasing you as the pleasure builds like a volcano about to erupt. You’re commanded to orgasm on demand as the pulsating vibrations begin again. You’re on the verge of exploding when a sharp spank reminds you your dominant is in control.
BDSM and tantric massage will take your sex life to a new dimension and it’s a practice I would recommend to anyone seeking an erotic adventure.
About the Author
Erica Suarez-Hillingdon is a
writer and an expert in the art of tantra and tantric sex with many years’ experience helping men, women and couples achieve sexual freedom. She is currently the editor at Karma Tantric a tantric massage agency in London which provides various erotic body-to-body massage experiences including dark tantra BDSM massages.
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