The Most Popular and Favorite Books on BDSM – According to Our Readers

The following is a compilation of the most purchased BDSM-related books on Amazon – by our community. They are organized by the number purchased through affiliate links in the past year.

  1. Conquer Me: girl-to-girl wisdom about fulfilling your submissive desires by Kacie Cunningham
  2. Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism by Philip Miller and Molly Devon
  3. Where I Am Led: A Service Exploration Workbook by Christina Parker
  4. Living M/s; A Book for Masters, slaves, and Their Relationships by Dan and Dawn Williams
  5. SM 101: A Realistic Introduction by Jay Wiseman
  6. Protocols: Handbook for the female slave by Robert J. Rubel
  7. The Control Book by Peter Masters
  8. The Submissive Activity Book: Building Blocks To Better Service by Shannon Reilly
  9. The Master’s Manual: A Handbook of Erotic Dominance by Jack Rinella
  10. Different Loving: The World of Sexual Dominance and Submission by Gloria Brame, Wiliam Brame and Jon Jacobs
  11. Protocols: A Variety of Views: Power Exchange Books’ Resource Series by Robert J. Rubel
  12. Erotic Slavehood: A Miss Abernathy Omnibus by Christina Abernathy
  13. The New Bottoming Book by Janet W. Hardy and Dossie Easton
  14. The Elusive Orgasm: A Woman’s Guide to Why She Can’t and How She Can Orgasm by Vivienne Cass PhD
  15. Sex Talk: Uncensored Exercises for Exploring What Really Turns You on by Lauren Dockett
  16. Master/slave Relations: Handbook of Theory and Practice (M/s Studies Books) by Robert J. Rubel
  17. The Loving Dominant by John Warren
  18. The Mistress Manual: The Good Girl’s Guide to Female Dominance by Mistress Lorelei
  19. Domestic Discipline by Jules Markham
  20. Flames of Passion: Handbook of Erotic Fire Play by David Walker and Robert J. Rubel
  21. The Sexually Dominant Woman: A Workbook for Nervous Beginners by Lady Green
  22. Sensuous Magic 2 Ed: A Guide to S/M for Adventurous Couples by Patrick Califia
  23. SlaveCraft: Roadmaps for Erotic Servitude–Principles, Skills and Tools by Guy Baldwin
  24. Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples by Jack Morin, PhD

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