Full Question: Trying to find my first munch meeting in the NY area. How can I know if it’s safe, and where can I find one?
Answer:
Finding a munch is a recommended first step for anyone interested in meeting people face-to-face and getting to know the larger community. Due to the Pandemic, finding munches has been more difficult as many events were canceled or postponed, and some groups may have moved online or closed down permanently.
To find local BDSM munches, you can use FetLife, a social networking site for BDSM enthusiasts. It has a calendar of events, including munches, in many cities. You can create a free profile and search for groups and events in your area. There are online directories like FindaMunch.com you can search through, post a discussion in forums like BDSM subreddits on Reddit.com, and ask at local sex toy shops or BDSM venues.
Once you’ve found a munch group you’re interested in, there are a few things you can do to determine if they will feel safe for you to attend:
- Research the organizers and venue: Look up the organizers of the munch and research the venue where it will be held. Check their reputation and see if they have any reviews or feedback from previous attendees.
- Attend with a friend: If possible, attend the munch with someone you trust. This can provide an extra layer of safety and support.
- Meet the organizers in advance: Consider reaching out to the organizers before attending the munch to ask any questions and get a better sense of the event’s vibe.
- Trust your instincts: Don’t hesitate to leave if something feels off or uncomfortable. Your safety and comfort are top priorities, so always trust your instincts.
By using these methods, you can find local BDSM munches and events and start exploring your interests in a safe and welcoming environment.