Full Question: Do subs always have to be bottoms?
Answer:
No. It’s a topic based on definitions and identity. A bottom is a receiver in BDSM play. A submissive is the follower half of a D/s relationship. Even the definitions are not synonyms. And they shouldn’t be!
It is very common that people who are submissive also bottom during play. When it comes to BDSM relationships, the terms “bottom” and “submissive” are often used interchangeably. It’s almost an assumption among discussion threads and forums. But it shouldn’t be. There are submissives who are service Tops for play. There are Dominants who bottom for play. Switches can be any mix of relationship identities and play roles.
So, if you don’t fall into the assumed roles, say so when you’re asked how you identify.
