slavekathy, Author at Submissive Guide

Never Say Never: Overcoming Hard Limits

A presenter I saw recently said that as a master, the first thing he does is to ask for his new s-type to fill out one of those online “sexual interest” lists where you rank your kink interests on a scale from zero for “Yes, please,” to five for “Oh, HELL no.” Then he takes […]

Telling the Difference Between a Ritual and a Protocol

By slavekathy / 3 minutes of reading

This entry is part 27 of 35 in the series Rituals, Rules and Protocol

What’s the difference between a protocol and a ritual? Even experienced people in the lifestyle can get tripped up on this one, but there are a few basic differences that will allow you to rapidly tell the two apart. A ritual: Some examples of common rituals are greeting rituals where the submissive meets the dominant

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