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2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 4: How to Gracefully Rise From The Floor

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This entry is part 4 of 14 in the series Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions

The next part of this two week series is about getting up from the floor. You’ve already learned about kneeling, standing at attention and lowering yourself with grace. Stick around, we have a lot to learn. If you’ve ever watched Memoirs of a Geisha you have seen how graceful it can be to rise from the floor, appealing and […]

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2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 3: Gracefully Lowering Yourself to the Floor

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This entry is part 3 of 14 in the series Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions

We have covered standing and kneeling so far in the positions project here at Submissive Guide. Today we will cover going from standing to kneeling in a graceful way. It’s not as easy as you think. First you have to pick out one kneeling posture and one standing posture from the previous posts. This way you know how you are starting

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2 Weeks to Better Submissive Positions – Day 2: Standing at Attention

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This entry is part 2 of 14 in the series Two Weeks to Better Submissive Positions

Today’s challenge in the two week project here at Submissive Guide is all about standing at attention. One of the most common ways you can present yourself as submissive to a Dominant is by the way you stand. You may do it now even though you don’t have any specific rules as to how to stand. Pay

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What is a Play Party?

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When you enter the local BDSM community one of the events you may be exposed to is a play party. A play party is an essentially a party where BDSM play can occur. Groups hold parties as a way to learn and educate on safe play methods, chat about topics and generally hang around. Parties

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A Skill Every Novice Submissive Needs to Master: Guilt Resolution from Mistakes and Punishment

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This entry is part 10 of 17 in the series Discipline and Punishment

Everyone at one time or another is going to go through moments of guilt. Submissives may have added self-guilt when you break a rule or upset your Dominant. These things are going to happen as you develop and grow in your role and your life. It’s hard to believe but no one is perfect. What

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The Importance of Rules and Structure in D/s Relationships

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This entry is part 31 of 35 in the series Rituals, Rules and Protocol

Submissives all around will identify with one or more of these terms: discipline, obedience, structure, and rules. I’m a submissive that needs structure. With structure can come rules, and that’s how my submission best functions in my dynamic with KnyghtMare. I serve him by actively following the rules that govern the structure of my day.

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Why the Word ‘Training’ Confuses Novice Submissives

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The word ‘training’ is a stumbling block for many novices and experienced submissives alike. The reason for this is that so many define training as the organized learning of behavior and activities in structured sessions or steps and that once complete, your training is complete. Let’s dispel that myth right now. Submissive and slave training

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