When does the car need a tune up again? Did we change the furnace filter recently? Have you descaled the coffee pot this month? How many times have you forgotten the routine maintenance tasks because you didn’t have them written down? I know I have. That was until I started adding reminders to my Google […]
31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Use Calendars to Make Routine Maintenance Reminders Read More »
When I first starting making a concerted effort to organize my cleaning and home organization, the first place I encountered is still the place I turn to over and over again. I owe all that I’ve learned and the drive to push further to FlyLady! While I don’t use all of her steps any longer,
31 Days To Better Domestic Service: FLYing with FlyLady.net Read More »
I used to have piles of manuals for various gadgets. Often they’d disappear when I need them most (how do you change the battery in the thermostat?). I’d go through them and find items that I no longer own and the clutter was very annoying. So one day I decided I was going to find
If you and your Dominant like to host parties then a butler’s book might be a great tool to make entertaining more organized, and fulfilling. Can’t remember if John likes board games, or if Lisa has an allergy to tomatoes? Your own butler’s book can house that information for you so that you can be
31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Create a Butler’s Book For Stress-Free Entertaining Read More »
Today I’d like to share with you a tool that is very helpful for larger families of any type. If you have more than a couple kids or a poly family that needs to coordinate calendars then Cozi might be a great solution. What can you do with Cozi? With Cozi, you can organize your family’s
31 Days to Better Domestic Service: Share Your To-Do Lists and Calendars with Cozi.com Read More »
Now that you have the basics of a Home Management Binder and you can put a physical binder together, some of you may want a digital version. Evernote is a great free program to make that happen and when I went paperless I used a great guide to get me on the right path. Now I could
31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Using Evernote To Build Your Home Management Journal Read More »
Discover how to create a submissive home management journal that works for your unique needs. From printables to customized pages, this guide helps you organize your household while aligning with your service and submission goals. Practical, personal, and purposeful, it’s the foundation of better domestic service.
31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Building Your Physical Home Management Journal Read More »
If you’ve ever wished you had a resource for everything related to your house care and maintenance, daily life and meal planning then this is the book for you. Sure it takes a bit to get started and developed but once you have one in place you’ll find your life to be so organized, together
31 Days To Better Domestic Service: The Home Management Journal Read More »
Hopefully you are now ready to embark on a few new changes to your domestic service and after all the panic of yesterday’s post you’ve calmed down and ready to get to work. Today is a moment of pure realization. When you look around at all the housework that needs doing you see a big
31 Days To Better Domestic Service: The Ten Minute Challenge Read More »
Welcome to the first day of an entire month of ideas to improve your domestic service. The things we’ll cover pertain to home care and as I’m not perfect, some of it will be sharing my challenges and things I’ve learned as I embraced the stay at home slave role 7 years ago. A few
31 Days To Better Domestic Service: Start Where You Are Read More »
October is going to be a frenzy of domestic and home management tips here at SubmissiveGuide.com. Starting Thursday I’m going to turn up the ‘Domestic Tips’ volume to 11 and am going to attempt to vomit onto you everything I know about how to make your home management and domestic service better. Each post will
31 Days To Better Domestic Service Read More »
Sharing your masturbation sessions with a Dominant can feel nerve-wracking at first—but it doesn’t have to. This guide explores why watching arousal is such a turn-on and how to move past embarrassment into confidence. Discover how to transform vulnerability into intimacy and make this act deeply satisfying for both of you.
He Wants to Watch: How to Share Your Masturbation Sessions With Confidence Read More »
Patience can be one of the most challenging skills for submissives to develop. This meditation invites readers to slow down, breathe, and reflect on patience as an intentional part of submission, offering a gentle practice for grounding, emotional regulation, and self-compassion within personal growth.
Patience – Submissive Meditation Monday Read More »
Punishment isn’t just about correction—it’s an opportunity for growth. In this article, we explore the deeper lessons submissives can learn from discipline: repairing trust, releasing guilt, and moving forward with humility. Mistakes happen, but with reflection, punishment can become a path to progress and stronger submission.
BDSM relationships don’t all follow the same emotional rules. This article explores the idea of “strings” versus “no strings” in BDSM, examining expectations, boundaries, communication, and emotional responsibility to help readers navigate casual and committed dynamics with clarity and consent.
BDSM Relationships: Strings or no-Strings Read More »
Exploring how to introduce your kinky desires to a partner can feel intimidating. This article offers subtle ways to signal your submissive interests while emphasizing the importance of clear, direct communication. Learn how to balance hints with honest conversation so your needs are understood and your dynamic grows stronger.
Are There Subtle Ways I Can Cue My Partner Into My Kinky Interests? Read More »
Submissives often struggle to express their sexual needs, but those needs matter as much as a Dominant’s. This article explores why communication is vital, how to speak up without guilt, and why ignoring your desires can harm intimacy. A reminder that healthy power exchange requires mutual respect and open dialogue.
Why Your Sexual Needs Matter in a D/s Relationship (or ANY Relationship) Read More »
In a poly triad, feeling like a “third wheel” can cause frustration and hurt—especially when one partner leans on marital status for power. This article explores how to address conflict, express concerns, and work with your Dominant to restore balance and equality within the dynamic.
Poly Conflict: Feeling Like a Third Wheel in a Triad Read More »
The word “submissive” can bring up pride, discomfort, or uncertainty. This meditation invites readers to reflect on what the label means to them personally, encouraging self-compassion, agency, and intentional identity-building as part of a healthy, grounded submissive journey.
Embracing Your Label – Submissive Meditation Monday Read More »
A well-written BDSM dating profile can make the difference between meaningful connections and constant frustration. This article explores how to write a successful BDSM dating profile by communicating desires, boundaries, and expectations clearly, helping readers attract compatible partners while avoiding common pitfalls and misunderstandings.
The Secrets to Writing a Successful BDSM Dating Profile Read More »
