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Hi, I'm Luna, and I'll be your guide.

Highly trusted and well-known for compassionate submissive learning, I have been providing wisdom to novice submissives and fostering a caring community for over 15 years. Welcome to Submissive Guide, where you’ll learn the skills to identify your submissive mindset, I’ll encourage you to be your truest self and help you discover a world of kinky possibilities. 

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Solo Coaching: Embracing Your Shadow Side: A Submissive’s Journey to Self-Acceptance

What if the parts of yourself you try to hide are the exact keys to deeper, more authentic submission? In this article, we explore your shadow side—the emotions, traits, and desires you’ve labeled as “bad”—and how bringing them into the light can lead to personal growth, stronger D/s dynamics, and greater self-acceptance. You’ll also learn practical tools like journaling, self-reflection, and the Johari Window to guide you on this powerful journey of integration and healing.

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When Submissives Go Wild: Sub Frenzy

Submissive Frenzy, or “sub frenzy,” is an intense psychological state where submissive desires feel overwhelming and urgent. It can cloud judgment, leading to risky decisions and emotional turmoil. Understanding its causes and signs—like desperation for connection, impaired judgment, and risky behavior—can help you navigate it safely. Read more here!

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Solo-Coaching: Nurture a Positive Point of View

Cultivating a positive mindset is essential for every submissive’s journey. Learn how to reframe negative thoughts, practice self-care, and embrace self-compassion to strengthen your submission and personal growth. Discover practical tools to shift your perspective and build confidence in yourself and your dynamic.

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Be a Cow! My Journey into Hucow Play

Curious about hucow play in BDSM? Discover a personal journey into embracing a playful, sensual cow identity. Learn how to explore your own hucow persona, build a unique “cow-tfit,” create immersive scenes, and connect with a welcoming community. Perfect for beginners ready to moo-ve into this fun and empowering kink!

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