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Processing Pain and Being a Masochist
Being that I’m a masochist, I love pain. I’ve never really thought about it or analyzed what that means really, but reading other people’s blogs has always helped me see that saying I’m masochist is just another huge personal term in BDSM as a whole. So, to think it though, ...
The Myth of a Slut
This is a guest post by Slut M as a response to SubWise #6 about BDSM Myths. According to the mythological story, a slut is a downtrodden woman who by nature or by circumstances is propelled to debase her body in sexual desires. And so the story goes: these sexual ...
My Submissive Code of Ethics
I’ve been developing a submissive code of ethics for myself to help give me long term goals and a focus. I feel it will bring about change in me that perhaps I can’t see yet. I thought I would share it here so that you can perhaps get some ideas ...
Are Discipline and Punishment The Same?
Reading across the blogosphere you will encounter these words almost synonymous to each other: Discipline and Punishment. The words are far from the same however some dynamics treat them the same. In fact for the longest time I have used the word punishment when I mean discipline. It’s even possible ...
Review: How to Be Kinky
Looking for a fun and interesting introduction to BDSM? Try How to Be Kinky by Morpheous. This one is better than others I've read in the simple fact that it doesn't overwhelm you with facts and details that just aren't important when you are take your first timid steps into ...Welcome to Submissive Guide!
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Defining Submission
Sub v. Slave: A Second OpinionThis is a guest post by Beth, as she will tell you, she’s a 24/7 slave of 2...
One month into my first real time D/S relationship: A Training ReviewThis is a Guest Post by A. She is a new submissive in her first 24/7 dynamic. I received...
Submissive and Slave: A Personal ViewThis post was written by Rayne. You can follow her twitter for active and interesting...
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Domesticity: The BathroomLast month we were in the kitchen, this month I want to walk you through cleaning...
SkylerPet’s Helpful Holiday HintsThis post is another guest post by Skylerpet. You can read her other posts here....
What are Dress Protocols?I had a question sent to me via YouTube asking me about for information about dress...
Read More PostsRecent Video Post
The Impact of Velcro Collars on the SymbolismThis week’s video post is about velcro collars. To submissives, a collar is one of the most important things they have. It is a symbol of their commitment, their service and their adoration of a special someone. In most situations, the offering or begging of a collar is not taken lightly. The weight of the matter could mean a lifetime of service, the same importance of engagement or marriage and strict adherence to rules and behaviors. However,... [Read the rest of the post]
Watch More Video PostsTraining Resume
My Submissive Code of EthicsI’ve been developing a submissive code of ethics for myself to help give me long...
Add Cons, Classes and Events to your Training ResumeYour training resume should be growing in bulk and excellent information if you’ve...
Add Your Reading List to Your Training ResumeSince the beginning of Submissive Guide I have been writing essays to help you build...
Read More PostsViews on D/s
Submissive Chat Night 2/9/10 8PM CST – Free ChatIt’s time again for another chat night here at Submissive Guide. I’d welcome...
Review: How to Be KinkyLooking for a fun and interesting introduction to BDSM? Try How to Be Kinky by Morpheous....
SubWise #6: Myth BustingLast week I asked you to talk all about BDSM Myths. Here are the submissions I received....
Read More PostsRelationships
Are Discipline and Punishment The Same?Reading across the blogosphere you will encounter these words almost synonymous to each other: Discipline and Punishment. The words are far from the same however some dynamics treat them the same. In fact for the longest time I have used the word punishment when I mean discipline. It’s even possible that Master has used these words interchangeably... [Read more]
5 Ways to Express Your Gratitude to Your DominantWith Thanksgiving (USA) just around the corner I thought it would be fitting to write about gratitude, and how to express your gratitude to the one you serve. Sure you can say thank you. That’s standard. I really hope you take every opportunity to say thank you, but what if you want a few more creative ways to show how appreciative you are to... [Read more]
Using Contracts to Negotiate a RelationshipWhen you get married, you have to legally sign a document attesting to your decision to be married. The legal document can come in many forms but most have a brief section about what each party declares for the union, how they will treat each other and how commitment will be displayed (change of names usually). In a D/s relationship it is not unfamiliar... [Read more]
Read More PostsBook of the Month
This month I'd like to feature How To Be Kinky by Morpheous. A perfect first book on BDSM and kinky play with fabulous photos.
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