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Hi, I'm Luna, and I'll be your guide.
Highly trusted and well-known for compassionate submissive learning, I have been providing wisdom to novice submissives and fostering a caring community for over 15 years. Welcome to Submissive Guide, where you’ll learn the skills to identify your submissive mindset, I’ll encourage you to be your truest self and help you discover a world of kinky possibilities.
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Be a Cow! My Journey into Hucow Play
Curious about hucow play in BDSM? Discover a personal journey into embracing a playful, sensual cow identity. Learn how to explore your own hucow persona, build a unique “cow-tfit,” create immersive scenes, and connect with a welcoming community. Perfect for beginners ready to moo-ve into this fun and empowering kink!
Solo Coaching – The Power of “No”: Honoring Yourself as a Submissive
Saying ‘no’ is a powerful act of self-respect, even in submission. Learn how to honor yourself, set boundaries, and embrace the empowerment that comes with maintaining autonomy as a submissive.
The Transformative Benefits of Journaling for Submissives
As submissives, we constantly learn and explore ourselves and the activities that bring us closer to our inner peace. We question our thoughts, ask deep questions, and look for answers. It’s part of what makes us so amazing, right? We are fueled by the passion to submit and serve. While exploring desires, setting boundaries, and deepening connections with our Dominants, getting lost in the whirlwind of emotions, needs, and expectations is easy. This flood of emotions is where journaling comes in – a powerful tool that can help you untangle your thoughts, process your emotions, and cultivate a deeper understanding of yourself and your relationships. You’ve probably heard that communication is one of the key elements that make a D/s relationship strong. Without good communication, your relationship is destined to have issues. While talking face-to-face may be the best way
A Beginner’s Guide to Sexual Power Exchange
My first experience of being kinky was in the bedroom when I asked my partner to tie me up and have his way with me. At the moment he emphatically said yes, I was hooked. Like me, you may find that exploring sexual submissiveness is a fun, exciting way to bring an element of power
How to Use Erotic Begging to Intensify Your Kinky Playtime
Want to spice up your kinky playtime? Learn how to use erotic begging to intensify your scenes, add elements of humiliation, and enhance your BDSM dynamics with your partner.
The Wild Side of BDSM: How to Safely Incorporate Outdoor Play into Your Kink
Exploring BDSM can be an exciting and fulfilling way to expand your sexual horizons, and outdoor BDSM play can provide a unique and exhilarating experience for those interested in pushing their boundaries beyond the confines of a traditional indoor setting. However, engaging in BDSM activities in the great outdoors also comes with its own set
Anal Training 101: From Hesitation to Penetration
If the idea of putting something in your butt or enjoying anal sex makes you hesitate, you aren’t alone. Even though anal sex has made huge steps toward acceptance, it remains an underrated, almost taboo activity. Exploring anal training is often filled with discomfort, both mental and physical, but despite what porn or movies would
