Inspired by the song “I Will Get There” by Boys II Men

This post is for all the single submissives that read this site. I know there is a large percentage of you so there is no reason to be silent any longer. I know the pain and loneliness you are going through. I know the longing and desire that mounts with each passing day.

I know you want to submit to someone and finally feel your world come full circle. Please hear me when I say it will happen. Patience isn’t always something we have, but it something you can learn. You can find other ways to feed your needs while you look. You can get through being single.

It’s true that I’m not single now and I’ve not been single for some time. You could even say that I don’t know what it’s like for you. You’d be correct. I don’t know what it is like for you. But I can draw from my own experiences just as I always do.

Being single isn’t a bad thing. I’ve seen some who almost spit the word as if it were vile and horrid. Perhaps those submissives should use a different word. Available, ready, eager and open. You are what Dominants are looking for. How many you have to see before you find your partner is moot. You will date as many as it takes.

Be proud of yourselves. Enjoy your singlehood. Once you have a lifetime partner you will never have it again. And you may miss it. Or at least parts of it.... like time to yourself. (That could just be me.) Embrace your independence, that too will pass.

When you do find someone to be with, things will change. You will have to adjust to that change. It will be a roller coaster ride full of ups and downs, twists and turns.

So now, as you wait in line for your turn to ride the ride is the time you adopt a new mantra, “I will get there someday.” Don’t make it a negative thing, make it one-day closer each time you say it. You WILL get there someday.

Until then you can learn about what you like, what you want, what type of submissive you will enjoy being. You can do some soul-searching and learn what is in your heart. Each time you long for someone just think, you will get there someday.

You deserve to be happy no matter what stage of life you are at. No matter if this is your early adulthood or the glowing rays of your later years. No matter if you’ve had no relationships or several.

You will get there Someday. Cheer it with me!