Playing by yourself (at the behest of your Dominant) requires a great deal of self-restraint and self-discipline. So how do you have play time when you’re in a long-distance relationship?
Read The Article | Find SimilarOne of the hidden jewels on this site is an e-Zine that ran on Yahoo Groups back when I first started exploring submission. It has since stopped production but the articles it contained are still valuable and worth a read so I thought I ‘d bring them back to the forefront. They’ve been archived here with the editor’s permission since the site was first created but I don’t think many of you know just how wonderful they are. I encourage you to check them out!
Read The Series | Find SimilarIf you are a submissive, or learning about submission and don't like pain or don't think you like pain then that doesn't mean you aren't submissive.
Read The Article | Find SimilarAs a submissive, it's hard to not beat yourself up over being unintentionally disobedient. I've been known to mope around for days after I've been in trouble; basically still punishing myself - even though the punishment is complete. Punishment is so that when it's complete you can move on with a clear slate. So, how do you cure that post-infraction funk?
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Read The Article | Find SimilarI am going to tell you, on no uncertain terms that if your dominant is hurting you out of anger this is abusive.
Read The Article | Find SimilarKnowing where to start can be difficult when you don't know a whole lot about BDSM.
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Read The Article | Find SimilarI know I’m human. Since I am human, that means I’m going to make mistakes. Here are some other tips I’ve found that can help when you find yourself feeling like a failure.
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