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How to Be Kinky

This book is specifically geared towards people who haven’t done anything to explore and are wanting to branch out into spicer sex practices. I could also see this book used to introduce a curious partner to kinky sex. It would be perfect for that.

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Topping from the Bottom

Topping from the Bottom is a quick downloadable guide that helps you grapple with a common misconception pertaining to submission, topping from the bottom. Learn what it is and isn’t, how you know you are overstepping your boundaries and what you can do to lift the stain that bottom-topping has left on many people’s opinions on submission.

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Traveling With Toys: A Submissive's Dilemma

To make toy storage easier, I discovered that the ideal toy bag.

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Understanding Natural Pain Processing Techniques for Better BDSM Play

There are three natural pain processing methods. They are acceptance, denial, and devouring. Two of these methods are very common, and the third being rare.

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Understanding Sub Fever

Figuring out what to do once you know you have it can be difficult. Novice submissives lose their rational thought really easily when the fever takes hold.

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Understanding the Reason Behind, "Am I The Only One?" and How to Respond (With a Bit of Netiquette Rules)

The underlying response to this question is simple, but the reason the person asked it is because it doesn't feel simple to them. Give the person compassion, not snark.

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Understanding Your Body's Responses During Play

When you engage in playtime with a Dominant your body is the canvas for sensation and pleasure. You can run the gamut of emotions and many of them can take you by surprise. It's not uncommon even for someone who plays regularly to be shocked by a new reaction to a play activity that they have experienced before. This goes beyond the bruising, scratching and other physical results of play. Here are just a few of the more common reactions to play.

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Under the Microscope: Analyzing What You Read About BDSM for the Truth

You can understand more of what you read and apply only what will work for your situation while discarding the rest - without being overly critical.

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Up in Flames: The Basics of Fireplay

There is a wide variety of activities you can learn that are part of Fire Play, but first, make sure you understand the risks. Fire is dangerous. We learned that as children. Know what you are doing before you start applying it to your skin as a part of BDSM play. Once you know, check out all the things you can do with it!

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Vaginal Fisting: How You Too Can Experience a Hand in the Bush

Fisting is amazing and incredible. It is something to be cautious about, but I don’t think it is necessary to fear it. Fisting is dangerous. But it can be a safer, saner and consensual activity. Other than hands: lube, communication skills, gloves, and patience are the necessary tools to move forward into the great divine. The only other factor is time.

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