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Guide to Your First Munch

There is one huge hurdle that can strike fear into you like nothing else can. You’ve been safe behind your computer, but the next step is clear. You need to meet people face to face. You will eventually need to go to a munch.

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Kinky Sex:The Secret to Long-Term Desire

This is the perfect book for individuals who are just getting started and for those who are wanting to introduce their partners.

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Labels - Yet Another "L" Word

I have a love/hate relationship with labels. Our lifestyle labels are no different.

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Lactation Play and the Adult Nursing Relationship

For many couples an Adult Nursing Relationship is not considered kinky nor does it have any connection between lactation and BDSM. For us, lactation was the first step down a new path. Our journey to re-lactation began as the first kinky request my husband made of me.

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Learn How to Talk Dirty

Taking the first steps into talking dirty isn't an easy process. You have to deal with embarrassment, discomfort and the fear that your partner will just laugh at you. I’ve taken all the guesswork out of how to practice and become comfortable using forbidden language to aid you in taking your sex life to the next level. Download the guide today!

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Learning About BDSM on YouTube.com

There's a treasure trove of information if you know where to look which is what I'm going to share with you here. Today's newsletter is a listing of all the really interesting BDSM education-focused videos on Youtube I could find when I was surfing around one day.

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Learning About Negative Pain Processing Methods

When we enter into a play session the goal is the positive experience so we'll talk about the negative ways we try to process pain that will be a detriment to your enjoyment of the scene and may cause your sadist partner to not enjoy themselves as much either.

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Learning About Positive Pain Processing Methods

There are two common methods to positively process pain. Dispersion and Release are more like titles for a range of positive techniques.

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Learning Better Pain Processing Through Visualization

As a masochist I enjoy pain for the sake of pain. I don’t always want to escape from it; rarely do I enjoy sub space because it separates me from the pain. I want to feel it, embrace it and hold it close. I've learned a few important skills that push those pain boundaries and bring me further into a sadist’s grasp. The most valuable of those skills is visualization.

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Learning Bimbofication: "Feeling Slutty" Feels Negative

My Master is into what is called, "bimbofication". I feel like my Master has done a great job with moving in baby steps, yet I still get overwhelmed. How can I stop from feeling overwhelmed by all these changes? How can I overcome associating feminine things with sluttiness?

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Learning to Appreciate the Small Moments - Submissive Meditation Monday

Everyone has time in their lives where things don't feel like they are going their way at all. It can drag you down or you can search for the positive.

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