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Anal Training 101: From Hesitation to Penetration

If the idea of putting something in your butt or enjoying anal sex makes you hesitate, you aren't alone. Even though anal sex has made huge steps toward acceptance, it remains an underrated, almost taboo activity. Exploring anal training is often filled with discomfort, both mental and physical, but despite what porn or movies would have you believe, anal sex really shouldn't be painful. With the right information and an open mind, you can make anal training an enjoyable, intimate activity that can add something special to your sex life.

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How to Use Role Play to Spice Up Your Sex Life

A lot of what we do can classify itself under role-playing. In fact D/s is a form of role-play. For many people it is just a character they don to play or have some kinky fun; it's not a part of their personality. The idea of role playing is taking on another persona other than yourself to enact that character. It can be short or long term.

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I Found a Munch, Now What?

Some tips for getting out to a munch on the right foot.

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Igniting Sexual Desire - Submissive Mediation Monday

Initiate sex. Flirt with your partner. Pounce when they are unaware. Share your passion with them.

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I'm New to BDSM, Where Do I Find Information?

Knowing where to start can be difficult when you don't know a whole lot about BDSM.

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I'm Ready to Get Kinky, How Do I Talk To My Partner?

I am not satisfied with my boyfriend. I don't know how to go about telling him, I want to be dominated.

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[Infographic] Bondage for Beginners

A lovely infographic (huge image with knowledge) for Bondage Beginners.

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Initial Steps Into Orgasm on Command Training

It all starts with your mind. As a submissive, if you feel that it just can't happen then it won't. You have to be willing to accept the possibility that an orgasm without physical stimulus is possible and that you want it.

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‘Innocently’ Outing Fellow Lifestylers

Be mindful of the information you know about someone else that's kinky. Sometimes, things can seem so very innocuous that information can ‘slip’ out casually – we may innocently drop in the ears of others. The fact is they either teeter on outing someone or can flat-out out someone.

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In Readiness - Scene Care and Aftercare

Whether you are preparing for a scene or well into aftercare it's always handy to have tools and resources at hand that can help you through all the stages of the play time many of us adore. I've gathered a list of the articles and essays on this site that are related to scene care and aftercare into one list.

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