After a few months of "bonding" over rope bondage, though, I'm pretty convinced it's a whole different animal. Perhaps there is something to be gained from regarding it as such.
Read The Article | Find SimilarThis month's free report is a compilation of essays from Submissive Guide about parenting and BDSM, children in the home and navigating quiet play and so many other concerns about being parents and also in a D/s relationship.
Read The Article | Find SimilarThis starter kit will help you answer some of your first questions and delve into your submissive thought process.
Read The Article | Find SimilarI've put together some of the best suggested things to have on hand and to do when you experience sub drop! I hope it helps you in your times of need.
Read The Article | Find SimilarIf you took a break and are trying to re-enter the scene, give yourself time to do so.
Read The Article | Find SimilarOnce you know why you are afraid to talk to your partner you can work to relieve that stress because communication is so very important to your relationship. You can't control how they will respond, but at least you will be confident in your approach.
Read The Article | Find SimilarWhen everything is new and exciting, it can be easy to get swept away in the moment and want to do it all right now.
Read The Article | Find SimilarThe idea of hypnotism always frightened me a little. I never thought it was entertaining to watch someone go up on stage and act like a chicken or in some other humiliating way. My Master, however, was intrigued by the idea of using hypnotism in our M/s relationship. I have always felt somewhat self-conscious with role playing and acting out fantasies, so Master thought of hypnotism as a way to relax me and make me feel less self-conscious.
Read The Article | Find SimilarIf you are just getting started with a flogger, define what type of play would interest you, and start to find out which floggers would be the best suited for the job.
Read The Article | Find SimilarOne of the most feared activities of a novice is getting up the nerve to meet other people face to face. Yet this is one of the first things that I and many others recommend for those wishing to get into BDSM. I encourage people to learn all they want behind the comfort of a computer screen but to really taste things as they are, they need to get out and experience it.
Read The Article | Find SimilarWhen was the last time you saw an adult dressed up as a naughty school girl, nurse, biker or mad scientist? Why Halloween parties most likely! Did you ever stop to think about whether that person was just dressing in costume or portraying a playful kink of theirs? Sure we hear on the news of yet another young couple walking onto a public bus collared and leashed but most of us don't let your kinks out in public.
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