Join Our June Watch Party!
2025-06-26 19:00 - 20:00 (America/Chicago) | Our Discord Server
Ever wanted to explore BDSM education in a supportive community? Now’s your chance!
We’re hosting a monthly watch party on our Discord server every month. We’ll watch BDSM educators’ videos together and dive into a guided discussion afterward. Whether new to submission or well-experienced, this is a great opportunity to learn, ask questions, and connect.
📅 Date & Time: June 26, 2025, 7PM CST
🎥 This month’s topic: Long Distance D/s
💬 Live discussion afterward!
All you need to do is join our Discord, show up, and enjoy the learning experience!
Interested? Drop a comment about topics you’d love to see featured in the future. See you there!
🔗 Join Here: https://subgui.de/chat

Patreon Book of the Month for July 2025 - Pain Play for Everyone
2025-07-01 - 2025-07-31 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re thrilled to announce our Book of the Month for July 2025: “Pain Play for Everyone”!
Pain Play for Everyone is a complete guide to understanding the body’s methods for pain processing. Knowing how your body responds to pain will help you accept the sensations, break down the walls keeping you from moving forward, and help you explore more of what pain play can do for your SM experiences.
Read the book’s details on Submissive Guide
How to Get a Free Copy
As a special offer for our community members, sign up for our Library Card tier on Patreon and get your copy for free! Plus, you’ll be supporting positive BDSM education.
Not ready for free books? Cheer Squad Patrons enjoy 15% off, and Students get 30% off every ebook at Shop Submissive Guide. Secure your copy today and enjoy the savings!
Click here to join: https://patreon.com/subguide/membership
Let’s delve deeper together!
What is Submissive Guide on Patreon?
We are a community of new and experienced submissives and the Dominants who support us. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.
In our Patreon, you will be supporting positive BDSM education for the future. You’ll get access to sneak peeks and behind-the-scenes work for all of our newest educational content. Some of the best Submissive Guide has to offer. We’ll continue the conversation in private chat on Discord. No matter where you are on your journey, we’ll be there.
Join Now- https://subgui.de/patreon

July Discord Community Munch
2025-07-10 19:00 - 21:00 | Our Discord Server
🎉 Join us this Thursday for our Discord Community Munch! 🎉
🕒 July 10, 7 PM CST
📍 Discord: https://subgui.de/chat
This month’s topic: Creating BDSM Scenes 💡 Let’s dive into meaningful conversations while connecting with like-minded folks. 💬✨
New to munches? Come as you are! 🖤

Submissive Forum on Munches, Play Parties and other Kinky Gatherings
2025-07-25 20:00 - 21:30 | Our Discord Server
Join us on July 25, 2025 at 8PM CDT in the Submissive Forum voice chat on our Discord server for a Submissive Forum.
Topic: Munches, Play Parties and other Kinky Gatherings
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on. The forum will present a topic for discussion and then be open to any questions and discussions about submission.
To join our Discord server, click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
As with all of our Forums, this is a sacred space that is non-judgmental and confidential. Let’s offer each other support and guidance in a safe environment. To encourage a safe space for our attendees, no Dominants are permitted.

About Our Discord Server
Our Discord server is open to everyone 18 years of age and older. Sign up before the forum so you can test our server and your headset before we start. If you run into any problems, contact a server moderator for assistance.
To join our Discord server, click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
How to connect to an Age-Restricted Discord server from an Apple device: https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-Accessing-an-NSFW-Server-FAQ

Able to Help Support Submissive Guide?
The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join Submissive Guide’s Patreon: https://subgui.de/patreon

Don’t Miss August’s Patreon Book of the Month: Creating a Training and Service Resume
2025-08-01 - 2025-08-31 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re thrilled to announce our Book of the Month for August 2025: “Creating a Training and Service Resume”!
With this guide, you will be given the directions and assistance for beginning to record your own submissive journey in words and logs that will follow you through your life. I will provide you with the best tools and worksheets available to help you learn the value of the things you experience and the training you undergo.
Read the book’s details on Submissive Guide
How to Get a Free Copy
As a special offer for our community members, sign up for our Library Card tier on Patreon and get your copy for free! Plus, you’ll be supporting positive BDSM education.
Not ready for free books? Cheer Squad Patrons enjoy 15% off, and Students get 30% off every ebook at Shop Submissive Guide. Secure your copy today and enjoy the savings!
Click here to join: https://patreon.com/subguide/membership
Let’s delve deeper together!
### What is Submissive Guide on Patreon?
We are a community of new and experienced submissives and the Dominants who support us. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.
In our Patreon, you will be supporting positive BDSM education for the future. You’ll get access to sneak peeks and behind-the-scenes work for all of our newest educational content. Some of the best Submissive Guide has to offer. We’ll continue the conversation in private chat on Discord. No matter where you are on your journey, we’ll be there.
Join Now- https://subgui.de/patreon

Submissive Forum on Building a D/s Relationship Online and Long-Distance
2025-08-22 20:00 - 21:30 | Our Discord Server
Join us on August 22, 2025, in the Submissive Forum voice chat on our Discord server for a Submissive Forum.
Topic: Building a D/s Relationship Online and Long-Distance
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on. The forum will present a topic for discussion and then be open to any questions and discussions about submission.
To join our Discord server, click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
As with all of our Forums, this is a sacred space that is non-judgmental and confidential. Let’s offer each other support and guidance in a safe environment. To encourage a safe space for our attendees, no Dominants are permitted.
About Our Discord Server
Our Discord server is open to everyone 18 years of age and older. Sign up before the forum so you can test our server and your headset before we start. If you run into any problems, contact a server moderator for assistance.
To join our Discord server, click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
How to connect to an Age-Restricted Discord server from an Apple device: https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-Accessing-an-NSFW-Server-FAQ
Want to learn more?
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that helps people learn, and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal. http://submissiveguide.com
Able to Help Support Submissive Guide?
The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join Submissive Guide’s Patreon: https://subgui.de/patreon

🎬 Join Our August Watch Party!
2025-08-28 19:00 - 20:00 | Our Discord Server
🎉 We’re hosting a monthly watch party exclusively in our Discord server – and you’re invited!
Each month, we’ll watch BDSM educators’ YouTube videos together and discuss the topics in real-time. It’s an easy, fun way to learn, share insights, and connect with the community.
🔍 This month’s topic: Evie Lupine’s Video on the New BDSM Test
📅 Date & Time: August 28, 2025, 7PM CST
💬 Live discussion afterward!
🔗 RSVP in our Discord & mark your calendars! https://subgui.de/chat

Patreon Book of the Month for September 2025 - Becoming a Service Submissive
2025-09-01 - 2025-09-30 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re thrilled to announce our Book of the Month for September 2025: “Becoming a Service Submissive”!
This essential workbook is designed for submissives who wish to explore service submission with their Dominant partners. This workbook provides a comprehensive and approachable way to understand and integrate service into your D/s dynamic.
Read the book’s details on Submissive Guide
How to Get a Free Copy
As a special offer for our community members, sign up for our Library Card tier on Patreon and get your copy for free! Plus, you’ll be supporting positive BDSM education.
Not ready for free books? Cheer Squad Patrons enjoy 15% off, and Students get 30% off every ebook at Shop Submissive Guide. Secure your copy today and enjoy the savings!
Click here to join: https://patreon.com/subguide/membership
Let’s delve deeper together!
What is Submissive Guide on Patreon?
We are a community of new and experienced submissives and the Dominants who support us. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.
In our Patreon, you will be supporting positive BDSM education for the future. You’ll get access to sneak peeks and behind-the-scenes work for all of our newest educational content. Some of the best Submissive Guide has to offer. We’ll continue the conversation in private chat on Discord. No matter where you are on your journey, we’ll be there.
Join Now- https://subgui.de/patreon

🎉 Submissive Guide’s First-Ever Membership Drive! 🎉
2025-09-01 - 2025-09-30 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’ve been building Submissive Guide for over 15 years, but this September we’re doing something brand new — our First Annual Membership Drive! For the entire month, we’re celebrating the community, releasing freebies, hosting events, and rolling out some exclusive rewards we’ve never offered before.
This isn’t just a Patreon thing. It’s a community thing. Whether you’ve followed Submissive Guide for years or are just stumbling across us here, we’d love for you to take part.
✨ What’s Happening?
From September 1–30, 2025, we’re going all in:

Exclusive stickers & enamel pins for Patrons who join, upgrade, or stay with us during the drive.
New freebies released throughout the month (including printables and mini-lessons you can try on your own).
Community events on FetLife, Discord, and Patreon where we’ll gather, learn, and celebrate submission together.

🎁 Freebies You Can Grab Right Away
Everyone (yes, even non-Patrons!) can enjoy these as they come out:

Submissive Affirmations Card – a printable reminder that your submission is valuable and strong.
Mini-Lessons + Reflection Activities:
Starting Out in D/s – Explore the questions every new submissive asks.
Erotic Begging – Playful, dirty, polite… how do you beg?
Active Submission – Learn how to bring more enthusiasm into your service and keep your Dominant engaged.

🫂 Events You’re Invited To
We’re making space for connection and fun:

Discord Munch – Hang out in your PJs, meet fellow kinksters, and chat.
Watch Party – View a BDSM educator’s Youtube video together and discuss in real time.
Submissive Forum – A voice-chat deep dive on submissive topics.
Ask Me Anything (AMA) – Across Discord, FetLife, and Patreon. Want to ask about submission, kink, or even my journey as a collared sub? This is the time.
Weekly community chats – Ongoing discussions in both free and patron-only spaces.

💎 Why Consider Becoming a Patron?
Sure, the public freebies are fun, but Patrons (especially at the Students tier: $10/month) unlock so much more:

Access to mini-classes like The Submissive’s Toolbox, Pet Play Explorations, and Intro to Submission.
Worksheets, workbooks, and deep-dive activities you won’t find anywhere else.
Early access to new articles, podcasts, and guides.
Live chats & Q&As just for the community.
And of course — the special stickers & enamel pins that only exist for this drive.

📅 Thinking Long-Term? Annual Memberships Rock
If you’ve been on the fence, annual support is the perfect time to commit:

Get an exclusive Submissive Guide enamel pin (any tier).
Save 12% off by paying once for the year.
Lock in all the perks of your chosen tier, no monthly billing to worry about.
Know you’re keeping BDSM education thriving all year long.

🖤 Why We’re Doing This
Submissive Guide has always been about making BDSM education easily available, realistic, and empowering. We’re not a glossy fantasy site — we’re a living, breathing resource created by and for submissives. This drive is our way of celebrating the community, growing stronger, and offering a little extra sparkle to those who support the work.
Some of the goodies will vanish back into the vault when the month is over. So if you’ve ever thought about joining or upgrading, this is the best time.
💬 Ready to Join the Fun?
You don’t need to be a Patron to participate in the events or enjoy the freebies. But if you do choose to support us — even just at $5 — you’ll be helping keep submissive-centered education alive and thriving.
👉 Check out patreon.com/subguide for all the details.
👉 Hop into our Discord server to join the community.
Let’s make September unforgettable together. 🥂

Patreon - AMA - Membership Drive Special Event
2025-09-09 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re excited to share that during this year’s Membership Drive, we’re hosting a series of Ask Me Anything (AMA) sessions across Patreon, Discord, and FetLife!
Each AMA will run for 24 hours, and you’ll be able to drop in your questions about submission, BDSM, relationships, Submissive Guide, or Luna’s personal submissive journey. We’ll answer as many as we can — keeping in mind that we may choose not to answer anything too personal or inappropriate.

This AMA must be less spicy due to Patreon’s rules and community guidelines. If you have spicy questions, please ask these during the Discord or FetLife AMAs.

These sessions are a fun way to connect, get your burning questions answered, and join the conversation happening across our community.
https://patreon.com/subguide

September Discord Munch
2025-09-11 19:00 - 20:30 | Our Discord Server
This Thursday, September 11, at 7 PM CST, our Discord server will host our monthly munch, featuring the topic: Online BDSM Education and Resources 💡
Munches are casual, friendly gatherings to discuss important ideas, share experiences, and connect with fellow community members. 💬✨ Whether it’s your first munch or your fiftieth, come as you are and join the discussion!
📍 Where: Our Discord Server
We can’t wait to see you there!

Discord - AMA - Membership Drive Special Event
2025-09-16 | Our Discord Server
We’re excited to share that during this year’s Membership Drive, we’re hosting a series of Ask Me Anything (AMA) sessions across Patreon, Discord, and FetLife!
Each AMA will run for 24 hours, and you’ll be able to drop in your questions about submission, BDSM, relationships, Submissive Guide, or Luna’s personal submissive journey. We’ll answer as many as we can — keeping in mind that we may choose not to answer anything too personal or inappropriate.
These sessions are a fun way to connect, get your burning questions answered, and join the conversation happening across our community.
https://subgui.de/chat

September Submissive Forum on Submissive Affirmations
2025-09-19 20:00 - 21:30 | Our Discord Server
Join us on September 19, 2025, in the Submissive Forum voice chat on our Discord server for a Submissive Forum.
Topic: Submissive Affirmations
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on. The forum will present a topic for discussion and then be open to any questions and discussions about submission.
To join our Discord server, click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
As with all of our Forums, this is a sacred space that is non-judgmental and confidential. Let’s offer each other support and guidance in a safe environment. To encourage a safe space for our attendees, no Dominants are permitted.
About Our Discord Server
Our Discord server is open to everyone 18 years of age and older. Sign up before the forum so you can test our server and your headset before we start. If you run into any problems, contact a server moderator for assistance.
To join our Discord server, click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
How to connect to an Age-Restricted Discord server from an Apple device: https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-Accessing-an-NSFW-Server-FAQ
Want to learn more?
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that helps people learn, and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal. http://submissiveguide.com
Able to Help Support Submissive Guide?
The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join Submissive Guide’s Patreon: http://subgui.de/patreon

FetLife - AMA - Membership Drive Special Event
2025-09-24
We’re excited to share that during this year’s Membership Drive, we’re hosting a series of Ask Me Anything (AMA) sessions across Patreon, Discord, and FetLife!
Each AMA will run for 24 hours, and you’ll be able to drop in your questions about submission, BDSM, relationships, Submissive Guide, or Luna’s personal submissive journey. We’ll answer as many as we can — keeping in mind that we may choose not to answer anything too personal or inappropriate.
These sessions are a fun way to connect, get your burning questions answered, and join the conversation happening across our community.
https://fetlife.com/submissiveguide

September Watch Party on Discord
2025-09-25 19:00 - 20:00 | Our Discord Server
🎉 We’re hosting a monthly watch party exclusively in our Discord server – and you’re invited!
Each month, we’ll watch BDSM educators’ YouTube videos together and discuss the topics in real-time. It’s an easy, fun way to learn, share insights, and connect with the community.
🔍 This month’s topic: What’s In a Sensation Play Kit?
💬 Live discussion afterward!
🔗 RSVP in our Discord & mark your calendars! https://subgui.de/chat

October’s Book of the Month on Patreon: The Online Submissive
2025-10-01 - 2025-10-31 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
In this ebook, I will help you learn how to create a personal ad that gets results, what to do once you’ve started connecting with a Dominant, and the tools and ideas you can use to make your D/s relationship intimate and connected, even if meeting each other isn’t possible.
Read the book’s details on Submissive Guide
Get a Free Copy When You Join Our Patreon!
As a special offer for our community members, sign up for our Library Card tier on Patreon and get your copy for free! Plus, you’ll be supporting positive BDSM education.
Not ready for free books? Cheer Squad Patrons enjoy 15% off, and Students get 30% off every ebook at Shop Submissive Guide. Secure your copy today and enjoy the savings!
Click here to join: https://patreon.com/subguide/membership
Let’s delve deeper together!
What is Submissive Guide on Patreon?
We are a thriving community of submissives and the Dominants who support us. Since 2009, Submissive Guide has provided down-to-earth BDSM education, helping people explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy, supportive way. Our mission continues to be to offer education that helps you learn and grow in your BDSM journey.
By joining Submissive Guide on Patreon, you’ll not only support this positive BDSM education but also get exclusive access to our newest content, sneak peeks, and private chats on Discord. Wherever you are on your submissive path, we’re here to help.

Discord Community Munch: Kink Etiquette: Rules That Aren’t Written Down
2025-10-11 19:00 - 21:00 | Our Discord Server
This Friday, October 10, at 7 PM CST, our Discord server will host our monthly munch, featuring the topic: Kink Etiquette: Rules That Aren’t Written Down 💡
Munches are casual, friendly gatherings to discuss important ideas, share experiences, and connect with fellow community members. 💬✨ Whether it’s your first munch or your fiftieth, come as you are and join the discussion!
📍 Where: Our Discord Server
We can’t wait to see you there!

October Discord Watch Party!
2025-10-22 19:00 - 20:00 | Our Discord Server
🎉 We’re hosting a monthly watch party exclusively in our Discord server – and you’re invited!
Each month, we’ll watch BDSM educators’ YouTube videos together and discuss the topics in real-time. It’s an easy, fun way to learn, share insights, and connect with the community.
🔍 This month’s topic: What’s In a Sensation Play Kit?
📅 Date & Time: October 22, 2025, 7PM CST
💬 Live discussion afterward!
🔗 RSVP in our Discord & mark your calendars! https://subgui.de/chat

November's Book of the Month for Patreon: Exploring Anal Pleasures
2025-11-01 - 2025-11-30 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re thrilled to announce our Book of the Month for November 2025: “Exploring Anal Pleasures”!
Discover the art of anal play to unlock new dimensions of pleasure and vulnerability within the context of BDSM and power dynamics. This book covers essential foundations for a fulfilling journey, from communication and consent to safety and hygiene.
Read the book’s details on Submissive Guide
How to Get a Free Copy
As a special offer for our community members, sign up for our Library Card tier on Patreon and get your copy for free! Plus, you’ll be supporting positive BDSM education.
Not ready for free books? Cheer Squad Patrons enjoy 15% off, and Students get 30% off every ebook at Shop Submissive Guide. Secure your copy today and enjoy the savings!
Click here to join: https://patreon.com/subguide/membership
Let’s delve deeper together!

What is Submissive Guide on Patreon?
We are a community of new and experienced submissives and the Dominants who support us. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.
In our Patreon, you will be supporting positive BDSM education for the future. You’ll get access to sneak peeks and behind-the-scenes work for all of our newest educational content. Some of the best Submissive Guide has to offer. We’ll continue the conversation in private chat on Discord. No matter where you are on your journey, we’ll be there.
Join Now- https://subgui.de/patreon

Discord Community Munch
2025-11-07 19:00 - 21:00 | Our Discord Server
Friday Plans? Let’s Have a Munch! 🎉
Our Discord Community Munch is happening this Friday, November 7, at 7 PM CST!
This month, we’re exploring “I’m Tired, but Still Me”: Navigating Burnout as a Kinky Person. 💡 Whether you’re new or experienced, let’s chat, connect, and learn from one another. 💬✨
📍 Where: Our Discord Server: subgui.de/chat
Bring your positive vibes and join the conversation! 🌟

Submissive Forum on Dating Challenges and Vetting Dominants
2025-11-21 19:30 - 21:00 | Our Discord Server
Join us on November 21, 2025, in the Submissive Forum voice chat on our Discord server for a Submissive Forum.
Topic: Dating Challenges and Vetting Dominants
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on. The forum will present a topic for discussion and then be open to any questions and discussions about submission.
To join our Discord server, click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
As with all of our Forums, this is a sacred space that is non-judgmental and confidential. Let’s offer each other support and guidance in a safe environment. To encourage a safe space for our attendees, no Dominants are permitted.
About Our Discord Server
Our Discord server is open to everyone 18 years of age and older. Sign up before the forum so you can test our server and your headset before we start. If you run into any problems, contact a server moderator for assistance.
To join our Discord server, click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
How to connect to an Age-Restricted Discord server from an Apple device: https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-Accessing-an-NSFW-Server-FAQ
Able to Help Support Submissive Guide?
The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join Submissive Guide’s Patreon: http://subgui.de/patreon

Don’t Miss December’s Book of the Month: Guide to Your First Munch
2025-12-01 - 2025-12-31 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re thrilled to announce our Book of the Month for December 2025: “Guide to Your First Munch”!
In this ebook, I will help you learn to make entering the local and regional BDSM community where you are – anywhere you are, painless and easy! Even being shy won’t be an obstacle anymore because you’ll have taken the steps necessary to assure yourself you are safe and secure, and welcome!
Read the book’s details on Submissive Guide
How to Get a Free Copy
As a special offer for our community members, sign up for our Library Card tier on Patreon and get your copy for free! Plus, you’ll be supporting positive BDSM education.
Not ready for free books? Cheer Squad Patrons enjoy 15% off, and Students get 30% off every ebook at Shop Submissive Guide. Secure your copy today and enjoy the savings!
Click here to join: https://patreon.com/subguide/membership
Let’s delve deeper together!
What is Submissive Guide on Patreon?
We are a community of new and experienced submissives and the Dominants who support us. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.
In our Patreon, you will be supporting positive BDSM education for the future. You’ll get access to sneak peeks and behind-the-scenes work for all of our newest educational content. Some of the best Submissive Guide has to offer. We’ll continue the conversation in private chat on Discord. No matter where you are on your journey, we’ll be there.
Join Now- https://subgui.de/patreon

December Discord Munch
2025-12-05 19:00 - 20:30 | Our Discord Server
Friday Plans? Let’s Have a Munch! 🎉
Our Discord Community Munch is happening this Friday December 5th, 2025 at 7PM CST!
This month, we’re exploring BDSM toys! Come talk about your favorites and where you got them. 💡 Whether you’re new or experienced, let’s chat, connect, and learn from one another. 💬✨
📍 Where: Our Discord Server: subgui.de/chat
Bring your positive vibes and join the conversation! 🌟

Join Our December Watch Party!
2025-12-12 19:00 - 20:00 | Our Discord Server
We’re hosting a monthly watch party exclusively in our Discord server – and you’re invited!
Each month, we’ll watch BDSM educators’ YouTube videos together and discuss the topics in real-time. It’s an easy, fun way to learn, share insights, and connect with the community.
🔍 This month’s topic: Building a Personal Dungeon
📅 Date & Time: December 12, 2025 at 7PM CST
💬 Live discussion afterward!
🔗 RSVP in our Discord & mark your calendars! https://subgui.de/chat
Able to Help Support Submissive Guide? The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join Submissive Guide’s Patreon: http://subgui.de/patreon

December Submissive Forum - A Holiday Party
2025-12-19 19:30 - 21:00 | Our Discord Server
Join us on December 19, 2025, in the Submissive Forum voice chat on our Discord server for our Submissive Forum.
Topic: Ask all your questions and celebrate the holidays with us!
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on. The forum will present a topic for discussion and then be open to any questions and discussions about submission.
To join our Discord server, just click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
How to connect to an Age-Restricted Discord server from an Apple device: https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-Accessing-an-NSFW-Server-FAQ
As with all of our Forums, this is a sacred space that is non-judgmental and confidential. Let’s all offer each other support and guidance in a safe environment. To encourage a safe space for our attendees, no Dominants are permitted.
Our Discord server is open to everyone 18 years of age and older. Make sure you sign up before the forum so you can test out our server and your headset before we start. If you run into any problems, contact one of the server admins for assistance.
To join our Discord server, just click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
Want to learn more? Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal. http://submissiveguide.com
Able to Help Support Submissive Guide? The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join Submissive Guide’s Patreon: http://subgui.de/patreon

Friday Plans? Let’s Have a Munch! 🎉
2026-01-09 19:00 - 20:30 | Our Discord Server
Our Discord Community Munch is happening this Friday, January 9, 2026 at 7PM CST!
This month, we’re exploring
“What’s in Your Starter Kit?”
Come prepared to share one item they’d put in a beginner BDSM kit — practical or silly. 💡 Whether you’re new or experienced, let’s chat, connect, and learn from one another. 💬✨
📍 Where: Our Discord Server: subgui.de/chat
Bring your positive vibes and join the conversation! 🌟

Join Our January Watch Party!
2026-01-16 19:00 - 20:00 | Our Discord Server
We’re hosting a monthly watch party exclusively in our Discord server – and you’re invited!
Each month, we’ll watch BDSM educators’ YouTube videos together and discuss the topics in real-time. It’s an easy, fun way to learn, share insights, and connect with the community.
🔍 This month’s topic: “Negotiation 101” — Consent, Limits, and Setting Up a Scene
📅 Date & Time: January 16, 2026 at 7PM CST
💬 Live discussion afterward!
🔗 RSVP in our Discord & mark your calendars! https://subgui.de/chat
Able to Help Support Submissive Guide? The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join Submissive Guide’s Patreon: http://subgui.de/patreon

January Submissive Forum - Types of Submission
2026-01-23 19:30 - 21:00 | Our Discord Server
Join us on January 23, 2026, in the Submissive Forum voice chat on our Discord server for our Submissive Forum.
Topic: Types of Submission: Finding Who You Are
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on. The forum will present a topic for discussion and then be open to any questions and discussions about submission.
To join our Discord server, just click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
How to connect to an Age-Restricted Discord server from an Apple device: https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-Accessing-an-NSFW-Server-FAQ
As with all of our Forums, this is a sacred space that is non-judgmental and confidential. Let’s all offer each other support and guidance in a safe environment. To encourage a safe space for our attendees, no Dominants are permitted.
Our Discord server is open to everyone 18 years of age and older. Make sure you sign up before the forum so you can test out our server and your headset before we start. If you run into any problems, contact one of the server admins for assistance.
To join our Discord server, just click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
Want to learn more? Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal. http://submissiveguide.com
Able to Help Support Submissive Guide? The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join Submissive Guide’s Patreon: http://subgui.de/patreon

Don’t Miss February’s Book of the Month: A Submissive's Guide to Your Wants and Needs
2026-02-01 - 2026-02-28 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re thrilled to announce our Book of the Month for February 2025: “A Submissive’s Guide to Your Wants and Needs”!
In this eBook, definitions of wants and needs are broken down into their basic parts so that you can really narrow down what is a priority to you, then explore ways to talk to your partner about your needs.
Read the book’s details on Submissive Guide
How to Get a Free Copy
As a special offer for our community members, sign up for our Library Card tier on Patreon and get your copy for free! Plus, you’ll be supporting positive BDSM education.
Not ready for free books? Cheer Squad Patrons enjoy 15% off, and Students get 30% off every ebook at Shop Submissive Guide. Secure your copy today and enjoy the savings!
Click here to join: https://patreon.com/subguide/membership
Let’s delve deeper together!
What is Submissive Guide on Patreon?
We are a community of new and experienced submissives and the Dominants who support us. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.
In our Patreon, you will be supporting positive BDSM education for the future. You’ll get access to sneak peeks and behind-the-scenes work for all of our newest educational content. Some of the best Submissive Guide has to offer. We’ll continue the conversation in private chat on Discord. No matter where you are on your journey, we’ll be there.
Join Now- https://subgui.de/patreon

February Discord Munch
2026-02-06 19:00 - 20:30 | Our Discord Server
Our Discord Community Munch is happening Friday, February 6, 2026 at 7PM CST!
This month’s topic:
“If You Could Design the Perfect Dungeon/Play Space”
💡 Whether you’re new or experienced, let’s chat, connect, and learn from one another. 💬✨
📍 Where: Our Discord Server: subgui.de/chat
Bring your positive vibes and join the conversation! 🌟
