Submissive Guide

May Discord Munch
2025-05-08 19:00 - 20:30 (America/Chicago) | Our Discord Server
This Thursday’s Discord Community Munch: What Makes You Feel Submissive or Dominant?
This Thursday, May 8, at 7 PM CST, our Discord server will host our monthly munch, featuring the topic: What Makes You Feel Submissive or Dominant? 💡
Munches are casual, friendly gatherings to discuss important ideas, share experiences, and connect with fellow community members. 💬✨ Whether it’s your first munch or your fiftieth, come as you are and join the discussion!
📍 Where: Our Discord Server
We can’t wait to see you there!

Join Our April BDSM YouTube Watch Party
2025-04-24 19:00 - 20:00 | Our Discord Server
📢 Watch, Learn & Discuss with Us!
We’re hosting a monthly watch party in our Discord community where we’ll watch BDSM educators’ YouTube videos together and engage in a live discussion afterward.
🖥 Why join?

Expand your BDSM knowledge
Connect with fellow submissives
Ask questions & share insights in a supportive space

📅 Date & Time: April 24, 2025 at 7PM CST
🎥 This month’s topic: Relationship Negotiation
💬 Live discussion afterward!
Don’t miss out on this unique learning experience!
🔗 RSVP & Join Our Discord Now! https://subgui.de/chat
P.S. Got topic ideas for future watch parties? Hit reply and let us know!

Submissive Forum on Submissive Speech
2025-04-18 20:00 - 21:30 | Our Discord Server
Join us on April 18, 2025, in the Submissive Forum voice chat on our Discord server for a Submissive Forum.
Topic: Submissive Speech
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on. The forum will present a topic for discussion and then be open to any questions and discussions about submission.
To join our Discord server, click this link: https://subgui.de/chat
As with all of our Forums, this is a sacred space that is non-judgmental and confidential. Let’s offer each other support and guidance in a safe environment. To encourage a safe space for our attendees, no Dominants are permitted.
About Our Discord Server
Our Discord server is open to everyone 18 years of age and older. Sign up before the forum so you can test our server and your headset before we start. If you run into any problems, contact a server moderator for assistance.
To join our Discord server, click this link: https://subgui.de/chat
How to connect to an Age-Restricted Discord server from an Apple device: https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-Accessing-an-NSFW-Server-FAQ
Want to learn more?
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that helps people learn, and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal. http://submissiveguide.com
Able to Help Support Submissive Guide?
The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join Submissive Guide’s Patreon: http://subgui.de/patreon

April Discord Munch - Play Parties / Dungeon Nights
2025-04-10 19:00 - 20:30 | Our Discord Server
This Thursday, Apr 10, at 7 PM CST, our Discord server will host our monthly munch, featuring the topic: Play Parties/Dungeon Nights. 💡
Munches are casual, friendly gatherings to discuss important ideas, share experiences, and connect with fellow community members. 💬✨ Whether it’s your first munch or your fiftieth, come as you are and join the discussion!
📍 Where: Our Discord Server
We can’t wait to see you there!

Patreon Book of the Month for April 2025 - A Submissive Positions Handbook
2025-04-01 - 2025-04-30 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re thrilled to announce our Book of the Month for April 2025: “A Submissive Positions Handbook”!
In A Submissive Positions Handbook, a downloadable guide designed to help you learn and customize simple, basic positions by breaking them into easy-to-understand steps that will revitalize the protocol in your relationship.
Read the book’s details on Submissive Guide
How to Get a Free Copy
As a special offer for our community members, sign up for our Library Card tier on Patreon and get your copy for free! Plus, you’ll be supporting positive BDSM education.
Not ready for free books? Cheer Squad Patrons enjoy 15% off, and Students get 30% off every ebook at Shop Submissive Guide. Secure your copy today and enjoy the savings!
Click here to join: https://patreon.com/subguide/membership
Let’s delve deeper together!
What is Submissive Guide on Patreon?
We are a community of new and experienced submissives and the Dominants who support us. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.
In our Patreon, you will be supporting positive BDSM education for the future. You’ll get access to sneak peeks and behind-the-scenes work for all of our newest educational content. Some of the best Submissive Guide has to offer. We’ll continue the conversation in private chat on Discord. No matter where you are on your journey, we’ll be there.
Join Now- https://subgui.de/patreon

FREE Virtual D/s Summit
2025-03-31 08:00 - 2025-04-03 17:00 | Dom sub Dymi
If you’ve ever felt like your D/s dynamic could be so much more—more fulfilling, more connected, more aligned with your needs—then you won’t want to miss this!
I’m thrilled to be part of the Dom/sub Dynamics Virtual Summit, a 4-day online event dedicated to helping you build a stronger, more confident, and more fulfilling D/s relationship.
📅 Dates: March 31 – April 3
🎤 Hosted by: Alesandra Madison of Dom Sub Living
💡 Featuring 20 BDSM experts, including:
✅ Evie Lupine
✅ John Brownstone & Kayla Lords (Loving BDSM)
✅ Princess Rara
✅ …and many more!
I’ll be presenting The Submissive Toolbox: 5 Must-Have Skills for Every Sub, where I’ll walk you through the essential skills every submissive needs to thrive—whether you’re brand new to D/s or looking to refine your dynamic.
💰 The best part? It’s completely FREE to attend!
Don’t miss this opportunity to learn from experienced voices in the BDSM community and gain practical insights to strengthen your submission.
🎟 Grab your free ticket today!
I can’t wait to see you there!
—Luna

CANCELLED - March Submissive Forum on Attending BDSM Conventions and Con Drop
2025-03-28 20:00 - 21:30 | Our Discord Server
Join us on Mar 28, 2025, in the Submissive Forum voice chat on our Discord server for a Submissive Forum.
Topic: Attending BDSM Conventions and Con Drop
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on. The forum will present a topic for discussion and then be open to any questions and discussions about submission.
To join our Discord server, click this link: https://subgui.de/chat
As with all of our Forums, this is a sacred space that is non-judgmental and confidential. Let’s offer each other support and guidance in a safe environment. To encourage a safe space for our attendees, no Dominants are permitted.
About Our Discord Server
Our Discord server is open to everyone 18 years of age and older. Sign up before the forum so you can test our server and your headset before we start. If you run into any problems, contact a server moderator for assistance.
To join our Discord server, click this link: http://subgui.de/chat
How to connect to an Age-Restricted Discord server from an Apple device: https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-Accessing-an-NSFW-Server-FAQ
Want to learn more?
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that helps people learn, and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal. https://submissiveguide.com
Able to Help Support Submissive Guide?
The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join Submissive Guide’s Patreon: https://subgui.de/patreon

Join Our March Watch Party!
2025-03-27 19:00 - 20:00 | Our Discord Server
🎉 We’re hosting a monthly watch party exclusively in our Discord server – and you’re invited!
Each month, we’ll watch BDSM educators’ YouTube videos together and discuss the topics in real-time. It’s an easy, fun way to learn, share insights, and connect with the community.
🔍 This month’s topic: Caregiver/little Dynamics
📅 Date & Time: March 27, 2025 at 7PM CDT
💬 Live discussion afterward!
🔗 RSVP in our Discord & mark your calendars! https://subgui.de/chat

ONLINE - Discord Community Munch
2025-03-13 19:00 - 21:00 | Our Discord Server
This Thursday, March 13, at 7 PM CST, our Discord server will host our monthly munch, featuring the topic: Beginning D/s Relationships. 💡
Munches are casual, friendly gatherings to discuss important ideas, share experiences, and connect with fellow community members. 💬✨ Whether it’s your first munch or your fiftieth, come as you are and join the discussion!
📍 Where: Discord voice channel – Invite: https://subgui.de/chat
We can’t wait to see you there!

Patreon Book of the Month for March 2025 – Submissive Reflection
2025-03-01 - 2025-03-31 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re thrilled to announce our Book of the Month for March 2025: “Submissive Reflection”! Designed to build a clear picture of what your personal submission looks like and how to be the best submissive you can possibly be.
What’s Inside:

Five chapters of articles and activities to keep you moving into deeper thought processes.
30 activities and worksheets to help you learn and grow in submission.
Growth through self-care like grooming, journaling, and introspection.
Write a Code of Ethics, and use affirmations and mind-maps to help you build your knowledge about yourself and your belief systems.
Come away knowing more about who you are now and the submissive you desire to be!

How to Get Your FREE Copy:
As a paid member of our community, you’ll have exclusive access to this month’s offer. Join our Devoted tier on our Patreon, opt-in to mailed rewards by providing your mailing address, and you’ll receive “Submissive Reflection” for free! Plus, you’ll be supporting positive BDSM education.
Ready to join us? Click here to sign up and claim your copy: https://patreon.com/subguide
Let’s delve into the world of BDSM education together! 🖤
PS: Not ready to be a member? You can get this book here.

Join Our Monthly Watch Party!
2025-02-27 19:00 - 20:00 | Our Discord Server
Ever wanted to explore BDSM education in a supportive community? Now’s your chance!
We’re hosting a monthly watch party on our Discord server starting this month. We’ll watch BDSM educators’ videos together and dive into a guided discussion afterward. Whether new to submission or well-experienced, this is a great opportunity to learn, ask questions, and connect.
🎥 This month’s topic: YOU PICK
💬 Live discussion afterward!
All you need to do is join our Discord, show up, and enjoy the learning experience!
Interested?
🔗 Join Here: https://subgui.de/chat

Submissive Forum on Submissive Goal Setting
2025-02-21 20:00 - 21:30 | Our Discord Server
Join us on Feb 21, 2025, in the Submissive Forum voice chat on our Discord server for a Submissive Forum.
Topic: Submissive Goal Setting
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on. The forum will present a topic for discussion and then be open to any questions and discussions about submission.
To join our Discord server, click this link: https://subgui.de/chat
As with all of our Forums, this is a sacred space that is non-judgmental and confidential. Let’s offer each other support and guidance in a safe environment. To encourage a safe space for our attendees, no Dominants are permitted.
About Our Discord Server
Our Discord server is open to everyone 18 years of age and older. Sign up before the forum so you can test our server and your headset before we start. If you run into any problems, contact a server moderator for assistance.
To join our Discord server, click this link: https://subgui.de/chat
How to connect to an Age-Restricted Discord server from an Apple device: https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-Accessing-an-NSFW-Server-FAQ
Want to learn more?
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that helps people learn, and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.
Able to Help Support Submissive Guide?
The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join our Patreon: https://patreon.com/subguide

Submissive Guide Discord Community Munch
2025-02-13 19:00 - 21:00 | Our Discord Server
Our Discord community munch the new place to be every month, and we can’t wait to see you all there! 🥳✨
It’s a perfect opportunity to connect with fellow members, share experiences, and simply enjoy each other’s company.
This month’s topic: Beginner Toys and Tools 💡 Let’s dive into meaningful conversations while connecting with like-minded folks. 💬✨
Not sure what to expect? Don’t worry! A munch is a social gathering for kink-interested people. So, come as you are and bring your positive vibes! Let’s make next Sunday an unforgettable one. 🌟
Join our Discord

Exclusive Members-only Mini-class: Unleashing Your Inner Animal: Exploring Pet Play
2025-02-04 - 2025-02-28 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re thrilled to announce that our first mini-class, “Unleashing Your Inner Animal: Exploring Pet Play,” is about to begin! Starting February 4th, this four-week journey will dive into the unique and creative world of pet play in BDSM, helping you discover how to bring your animal identity to life in a safe, fulfilling, and deeply personal way.
Here’s what you can look forward to:

Engaging Lessons: Each week, we’ll explore key aspects of pet play, including animal identities, scene dynamics, communication, and creative play ideas.
Worksheets & Prompts: Reflect and expand your understanding with hands-on activities designed to guide your exploration.
Discussion Topics: Share your thoughts, experiences, and questions in our private community space, fostering connection and support.
Live Chat Finale: Wrap up the course with an interactive chat, where we’ll dive deeper into your questions and reflections.

This mini-class is about more than just learning—it’s about building confidence in your unique expression, connecting with your partner or community, and finding joy in playful vulnerability.
We can’t wait to take this journey with you! 🐕🐾🐱
👉 Make sure you’re in the Student tier or above so you’re ready to start on Day 1!
Get excited—it’s time to unleash your inner animal! 🐾

Patreon Book of the Month for February 2025 - A Submissive's Guide to Your Wants and Needs
2025-02-01 - 2025-02-28 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re thrilled to announce our Book of the Month for February 2025: “A Submissive’s Guide to Your Wants and Needs”!
In A Submissive’s Guide to Your Wants and Needs, definitions of wants and needs are broken down into their basic parts so that you can really narrow down what is a priority to you, then explore ways to talk to your partner about your needs.
Read the book’s details on Submissive Guide
How to Get a Free Copy
As a special offer for our community members, sign up for our Library Card tier on Patreon and get your copy for free! Plus, you’ll be supporting positive BDSM education.
Not ready for free books? Cheer Squad Patrons enjoy 15% off, and Students get 30% off every ebook at Shop Submissive Guide. Secure your copy today and enjoy the savings!
Click here to join: https://patreon.com/subguide/membership
Let’s delve deeper together!
What is Submissive Guide’s Patreon?
We are a community of new and experienced submissives and the Dominants who support us. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide practical educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and build healthy D/s relationships. That is our continued goal.
In our Patreon, you will be supporting positive BDSM education for the future. You’ll get access to sneak peeks and behind-the-scenes work for all of our newest educational content. Some of the best Submissive Guide has to offer. We’ll continue the conversation in private chat on Discord. No matter where you are on your journey, we’ll be there.
Join Now- http://patreon.com/subguide

Submissive Forum on Erotic Begging
2025-01-17 19:00 - 21:30 | Our Discord Server
Join us on Jan 17, 2025, in the Submissive Forum voice chat on our Discord server for a Submissive Forum.
Topic: Erotic Begging
The Submissive Forum is open to all who identify as an s-type role, including switches with your sub hat on. The forum will present a topic for discussion and then be open to any questions and discussions about submission.
To join our Discord server, click this link: https://subgui.de/chat
As with all of our Forums, this is a sacred space that is non-judgmental and confidential. Let’s offer each other support and guidance in a safe environment. To encourage a safe space for our attendees, no Dominants are permitted.
About Our Discord Server
Our Discord server is open to everyone 18 years of age and older. Sign up before the forum so you can test our server and your headset before we start. If you run into any problems, contact a server moderator for assistance.
To join our Discord server, click this link: https://subgui.de/chat
How to connect to an Age-Restricted Discord server from an Apple device: https://support.discord.com/hc/en-us/articles/1500005292701-Accessing-an-NSFW-Server-FAQ
Want to learn more?
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide down-to-earth educational BDSM content that helps people learn, and explore kink and D/s relationships in a healthy way. That is our continued goal.
Able to Help Support Submissive Guide?
The generous pledges from members through our Patreon page help us provide current and future education opportunities for our community online. Please click here to join our Patreon: https://patreon.com/subguide

Discord Community Munch
2025-01-12 15:00 - 17:00 | Our Discord Server
Our Discord community munch is happening again this Sunday, and we can’t wait to see you all there! 🥳✨
It’s a perfect opportunity to connect with fellow members, share experiences, and simply enjoy each other’s company.
Not sure what to expect? Don’t worry! A munch is a social gathering for kink-interested people. So, come as you are and bring your positive vibes! Let’s make this Sunday an unforgettable one. 🌟
📍 Location: Our Discord Server https://subgui.de/chat
See you there, friends! 😄🎉

Patreon Book of the Month for January 2025 - Lessons in Submissive Speech
2025-01-01 - 2025-01-31 | Submissive Guide on Patreon
We’re thrilled to announce that the Book of the Month for January 2025 is “Lessons in Submissive Speech!” As part of your patronage of Submissive Guide, you’ll receive this book as a token of our appreciation.
Learn more about the book
Sign up for our Devoted tier in Submissive Guide Patreon and get your copy for free! Plus, you’ll be supporting positive BDSM education. Click here to join: https://patreon.com/subguide
Let’s explore submissive speech together!
What is Submissive Guide’s Patreon?
We are a community of new and experienced submissives and the Dominants who support us. We believe education and shared knowledge are key to learning and exploring BDSM and D/s relationships.
Since 2009, Submissive Guide’s mission has been to provide practical educational BDSM content that can really help people learn and explore kink and build healthy D/s relationships. That is our continued goal.
In our Patreon, you will be supporting positive BDSM education for the future. You’ll get access to sneak peeks and behind-the-scenes work for all of our newest educational content. Some of the best Submissive Guide has to offer. We’ll continue the conversation in private chat on Discord. No matter where you are on your journey, we’ll be there.
Join Now- http://patreon.com/subguide
